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The Islamic Center of Pittsburgh and its Schenley Farms neighbors have resolved a four-month dispute over a playground the center wants to build on its Bigelow Boulevard property. (more...)

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Gentlemen: If you gave your wife six months to save the marriage and told her she had a one percent chance of saving the relationship; What would it take to save the relationship? What would you want to see? How could she build towards having a better relationship with you? What would drive you nuts? My husband says he still loves me, he still flirts with me, we still make love, but he doesn't think he can live with me anymore because of my mental instability. I'm now in therapy/counseling to resolve my issues, but I also need to rebuild the relationship so your advice will help. Ladies: How did you let go of your marriage and move on? Did you ever wake up and find you didn't know yourself anymore? What were your next steps for getting your life back on track? Could you forgive your husband/ex, if he wanted to walk away from the marriage and still save the friendship? All comments and advice are appreciated. Cheers. Additional Details: Mental Instability in this case equals paranoia about his relationship with female friends, insecurity issues, PTSD, pms, and verbal abuse on my part towards him. Most of these existed before we were married, the paranoia about other relationships and verbal abuse began after he had an online affair and began hiding things from me, like talking to ex-girlfriends. (ie: Emotional Rollercoaster) He is committed to seeing a therapist individually and going to couples counseling, so he is making some efforts to meet me half way. His cop out is that he hurt, well I hurt too - I'm not telling him to man up, I'm asking him to be honest with me. We aren't seperated, we currently live together. He ask me to move into a seperate room and then ask me back into ours when he realized he was putting up barriers between us. And yes, I really want to save this marriage. (more...)

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Aargh - I deleted this by accident so I am posting it again!! (thank god for caches!!) I need advice. I have posted this in a different section and folk have been very supportive but I could do with the opinion of different readers. I have a great relationship with my girlfriend, we live together and both work. She has to be away from home a few times a year with her work for about a week at a time. A month ago during a lonely evening, I found I was missing her whilst she was away and ended up going to her wardrobe and hugging some of her clothes, especially a long, wide black skirt that makes her look gorgeous. (On days she wears it, we often end up really friendly by the end of the day!!) Anyway, doing this and thinking of her made me horny and I ended up wearing it, laying on the bed and falling asleep. I am not a crossdresser an dhave never done this sort of thing before but it was really pleasant and I felt close to my GF by doing it. The dreams I had of her and I were great and I ended up doing something in the skirt I was ashamed of - I won't go into detail. Despite the shame, I sucummed to temptation to do it again the following night. I cleaned it up but felt I had to come clean with my GF when she returned. Amazingly, she found the idea really sexy and, to cut a long story short, we experimented with clothes in our lovemaking. She was far too daring though and had me going out in a secluded village in the early hours wearing the skirt, pumps and top and a coat with a big hood to hide my face. It all went too far for me and we agreed to stop after a couple of sessions. She was disappointed but understood. This should have been it but this week she has been away and I found that when I was missing her I ended up doing exactly what I did last time. I felt even more crappy when I had done it and resolved not to do it again, but it helped so much that my resolve crumbled and I ended up doing the same thing last night. This time, I am reluctant to tell my GF as I really don't want her getting carried away with it but I feel just as bad keeping it secret from her. I wish it didn't help so much with the loneliness but when she is around, I don't feel the need to do it. Maybe if I kept it to myself, the need would diminish in time or if it didn't, I could talk about it then. I really don't know what to do. I'd appreciate some help! To mick-e M: I did tell her, it says so in the question. Its moved on. (more...)

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My husband and I have a 16 month old daughter. Things haven't been great between us since I discovered I was pregnant (though it was planned) as he decided he then didn't want the baby (though he was the one pushing for us to try) and was horrible to me throughout the pregnancy. I, obviously, refused to abort our baby and am so glad I didn't. He doesn't do much for her at all, no feeding, no nappy changes, pays for nappies only - no christmas/birthday presents - all this is paid for by me. He has been trying over the last few months to be nicer to me, but I feel like I just can't be bothered anymore. I have spent the first 14 months of our daughters life doing everything for her and being alone with her (he was often out when home) and have realised I've quite gotten used to it and prefer it. When he comes home and wants me to sit watching TV with him, or send our daughter to sitters so we can go out and get drunk - I'm not interested, I would rather spend time with her. I'm not obsessed with her, I love her more than anything but could happily leave her with someone were we going to do something fun together, have a date night or something but he just wants to go out and get drunk and I don't. He has gone from no interest in me, to asking constantly 'who do you love?' and 'will you have sex with me tonight?' and moaning that he thinks I am going to leave him for someone else (no danger of that!) and I just find being with my daughter more enjoyable than being with him - which sounds horrible. I want to make an effort to make our marriage work for our daughters sake, but I find it hard to be a fantastic wife to him when I see him barely acknowledging our daughter. I feel like I have to do more for her to make up for what he's not doing. I've spoken to him and he thinks I'm over-reacting and that the odd 10 minutes of playtime every few days is more than enough, and the same as what most fathers do. Any ideas how we can resolve this? Yet if we were to split he insists he would go for 50/50 custody because she is HIS daughter too, and he would be convinced I would be leaving him for another man so would see her that much out of spite. (more...)

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I had lost my job as a teacher a couple of months ago. I have finally resolved to applying for unemployment benefits after being unsuccessful in finding a new job. However, I am right now filing paperwork for my mother who is currently living in the U.S. but has overstayed her visa and has been working in the country for a number of years while always paying her taxes. I am a currently a U.S. citizen. Will my applying and receiving unemployment cause problems with her getting permanent residency? (more...)

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I have a 1992 volvo 740 wagon that I LOVE. Last year it started having a cold start issue. It started up and then just wouldn't run well until the car warmed up. I was told that the vacuum system helped adjust the fuel intake until the car warmed up so we replaced some of the vacuum hoses hoping it was just an old hose. That fixed it for a few weeks, then the problem came back, then the car blew the head gasket (car started blowing out white steam from the tail pipe). We fixed the gaskets and machined the head. The problem resolved and the car ran really well. 8 months later the problem is back. Car runs crappy until it warms up. Now it seems to be getting worse and it takes a few turns to get the car to start. Any ideas? (more...)

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He split with me in September, no serious problems, too much distance and not enough time. Saw each other in December and he told me he thought he wanted me back, I was just happy to be friends at this point and was shocked because all along he told me he didnt want to get back together but when he saw me the way he felt changed. I supposed I chased him a little too much in the time after and I kinda ruined things I suppose. He came back for his christmas holidays from university ( back to where we both live) we basically got back together, spent alot of time together, were basically how we were before. He changed , he started to act differently towards me, I asked why and he said because I deserve to be treated better. He kissed me goodbye, hugs and kisses. slept in a bed together and cuddled and talked all night, u no all that. ( we didnt have sex before anyone says he was using me, he didnt even try it) . But we spoke the day he went back to university, his words were ' I cant miss you if your still here, I still dont know how I feel. I just know I could love you like I used to and I think I need time away from it. Now today I told him my heads all over the place, so he got stoned. :S I told him he made me feel bad and he got stoned so he 'could just forget' . Im at breaking point. Hes messed me around for 1 month, and its not like me to take being messed around for 1 minute. I really do love him, and hes my best friend, I love him more than I can even say its even making me feel like I wana cry saying it :(:( His words were ' the day you truly go, because you wanted to go is the day i realise what ive really lost, when you go at the moment, i know your coming back' When we split he was horrible to me, really nasty. I told him not to speak to me again, as I wasnt having it, but he asked to meet and we resolved things. But now hes turning back into that person I know I need to leave him, he knows, everyones knows. But how do I go ? :( Hes my best friend, myfavourite person, I even feel like hes made for me. We were perfect over the last few weeks, He even said it Today I asked him to just tell me he doesnt want me,he said he cant. I said didnt that show him anything? He said I dont know. I asked him why after a month he still doesnt know either way , I asked whats keeping him here. and he said YOU. How do I leave and never go back ? How do I stop caring about whether he wants me back. How do I move on and be happy. I cant do this anymore :( (more...)

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Last night this incident occured and I want your opinion on this. Last year I bought an opened boxed laptop from circuit city and I bought their advantage plan in which if the fire dog department ( circuit city computer tech) failed in fixing the problem they would replace the laptop with another one within the same price range and this works after the manufacter warranty expires. So I bought the laptop Jan 05 of 2008 and in feburary the laptop died on me one month after purchase so I took the laptop to the fire dog and they held it for one week because they couldn't figure out the problem. Then they told me that I have to send the laptop to Acer the manufacter to fix and i complied with that and I sent the laptop to acer and they fixed. Then for the past 6 months I've been having the same problems with the laptop so I talked to fire dog department and they told me I could bring in the laptop and get another one so I went yesterday to do so. I was surprised that the fire dog told me according to the plan they have to see if they can fix it and if they can't then they would replace the laptop for me and i have told them that the laptop been sent out twice and your technicians failed to fix it and this computer is an opened box item which means its been used and abused and probably returned for being defective so I would like a different laptop please and my pitch got high little bit but I do have a naturally high pitch tone and i was very respectful. The manager raises his arm all the way to my face level with a fist shape and tells me to get out of the store and he's not going to let me disrespect his employees. I was calm and told him I didn't disrespect anyone and to my understanding your advantage insurance plan grants me a different laptop if you failed in fixing it which is proven twice once by your department and once by the manufacter. Then he leaves the counter and comes towards me standing infront of my face invading my personal space and I told him that he's invading my personal space and please back away because you're too close to me. Then I asked him for his name and the 1800 number for complaint for Circuit city and he refused to give it to me and told me we are not going to give you anything. I told him by law you are suppose to give me that number with your name because I worked in a retail store and no matter what you're obligated to give that number. Then I asked him to call the cops because he raised his arms to my face level and shaped it as a fist and I want to press chargers because I was threatened by his actions and disrespected. Then he said okay we are calling the cops and then he made 3 of his employe's stand around me and watch me to make sure that I don't talk to anyone until the cops came and this all happened infront of the customers and I was really disrespected and made me feel like a fugitive or I stole something I'm like what the hell I'm medical student and there's no way in hell I would deal with people like that and what you're doing shows lack of professionalism. I was waiting for 35 mins and the cops didn't show up while 3 workers were surrounding me and watching me. Then he comes back and he was like well the cops didn't come I told him I know because you never called and my cellphone in the car and I can't leave the store once you asked me to leave and come back then he was like how can we resolve this. He ended up doing what he was suppose to do from the beginning return the laptop and give me another one. I don't want to say because I'm middle eastern with muslim name he was racist against me but, I think what he did with his employees was very wrong and he needs to pay for that behavior and disrespect. Do you think I have a case? I didn't take any customers number as witnesses but the camera are there and I saw 3 of them that covered the angles pretty well. (more...)

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I have an 8 month jack russell who is great apart from when I go to work she is howling when left alone. She is left in twice a week for about 3-4 hrs and my neighbour has informed me that she is noisy when I leave ( I live in a conversion). I have left a radio on for her and left her toys and chews...I dont want to annoy my neighbour but I really dont know how to resolve this. Please help (more...)

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How can a guy stop talking to someone he says he loves after a break up? i was with my boyfriend for two years and everything was always really good. We always had so much fun together, he was my best friend. We were together almost every day, went on vacation together, and talked about getting married. The only problem in our relationship was that we fought about how much he worked and he wasn't willing to compromise or listen when it bothered me when he had to cancel plans to work late/weekends. I told him I wanted to talk to him about this because i felt like it needed to change and he said it wouldn't change and we shouldn't be together anymore because we don't get along as a couple because of this fighting. He made it very clear that he still loves me and the only reason he didnt want to be together anymore is bc he didn't think it was meant to be because we fight. I felt like it was a small issue in a overall great relationship that could be resolved. He said he didn't feel like relationships should take work, I think it's because he has never had a serious girlfriend before and does not realize that all relationships take work and none are perfect. After we broke up we tried to be friends but he started going out with people he never did when we were together and we got in a fight. Now he won't talk to me AT ALL or answer my calls or texts, and this is going on 2 months. I just don't know how you could stop talking to someone you love? or how you could not want to be with someone you love? ALSO, when we broke up I was so upset i couldn't even get out of bed and he seemed to just be fine about it.. was it because he just didn't care about me, or because this is normal for men? I think if he was upset, he would try to fix it instead of being so adament that we're not meant to be together. I know that most of the reason it was so hard for me was because my best friend for the past two years isn't there anymore, and he's the only person that i usually go to when i'm upset. I feel like if i was as important to him as he was to me he would WANT to talk to me when he knows how upset i am and it wouldn't be so easy for him to just cut me off completely from his life. I was just hoping someone could provide some insight into this for me? Please nothing mean, i'm really sad about this...this guy and relationship meant alot to me and we really were happy when we were together. (more...)

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About 6 months ago I lent my landlord "friend" 22 thousand dollars to help her pay her mortgage. She was in deep dept and was going to lose her house. I was also living there at the time, in one of her rooms she was renting out. She promised to pay me back by refinancing after I lent her the money, or by getting a loan from the bank. It turned out that she was not able to get the loan, or refinance. And was not able to pay me back. She is now paying me whatever money she can get from her tenants that live in her house now that she rents out. She sleeps in her RV in her backyard and has no other job. One of her other tenants that lived in her guest house failed to pay her and owed her 4 thousand dollars. She had to evict them, and got no money from them. And therefore nothing to give me. She is 53 years old. I am 27. I just want back my 20 thousand dollars. I live in WA state and just moved here a year ago. I don't know the laws here. And I don't know what to do. I am currently living in her cottage house but am considering moving back to NY where I came from, a year ago. However I don't want to leave without getting this resolved. She wants to pay me through mail when I move but that is not good enough for me. I have no money because she has it all. What should I do? Since I can't even afford a lawyer. We did not make any contracts when I loaned her my money. We were friends and I trusted her. (more...)

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